How to be more confident
Here are 4 tips to greater confidence and attraction.
1: Believe that you can handle any circumstance. You get to decide what you make it mean if a guy says he’s not interested. We shy away from this because we’re afraid we’ll make it mean we’re undesirable or men are not trustworthy. If we decide ahead of time we won’t think these negative thoughts, we can take action from confidence. Confidence always produces higher quality actions and more desirable results when it comes to attracting men.
2: Know that you’re not perfect. But don’t let that be a reason not to love yourself or accept yourself. I always thought I had to be skinny to attract the man of my dreams. When I dropped this belief and chose to be happy as I was, I instantly became more fascinating to guys. Happiness is the habit of the super irresistible woman.
3: You don’t need to play the comparison game. You don’t need to be better than anyone to feel good about yourself. There is no contest and no competition. Everyone is equally lovable. We judge others as a way to distract from judging ourselves. So just let go of the judgements altogether.
4: Dare yourself to do brave things. Look at your past for other times you’ve been brave and it’s turned out in your favor. When I was single sometimes I would walk through the men’s department at stores and ask a guy’s opinion about an item – just to practice being confident. Challenge yourself to talk to people you don’t know. This will totally build more confidence.
BONUS: You are fearfully and wonderfully made. God sent His Son to die for you. All things work out for the good of those who love God. He has a plan for your life. You are greatly cherished by your Heavenly Father. Let that be your confidence.
We instruct people on how to think of us by how we think of ourselves. When we love ourselves and feel confident, it makes it more likely that the guy we’re attracted to will love us and feel confident about us!
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