I used to wallow in the feeling of rejection. I felt so unwanted and worthless when a guy I liked didn’t choose me. It was the worst experience. Then one day, I realized that I had been giving all my power away to guys who didn’t deserve it. I decided that I would never feel rejected again. I would throw rejection to the curb. I was in charge of my feelings. I chose what I would make it mean if a guy didn’t like me. Here’s what I learned and started to believe.
1️⃣ I was going to find love. If a guy didn’t like me, good. I was one more step closer to the man that was for me.
2️⃣ I was beautiful, desirable and sexy. I was a high value woman regardless of whether every guy chose me.
3️⃣ My feelings were my choice. I decided I would feel desirable and worthy. I would not choose anything less. The way I thought about myself no guy could touch. He could not determine my self love.
4️⃣ There was no such thing as rejection. Humans can’t reject other humans. That’s just a made up term. I refuse to think this way. I refuse to label myself this way.
And just like that. My dating life exploded. I got over guys so much quicker. I felt stronger and started enjoying the dating process. And pretty quickly I met the one for me.
Don’t let fear of rejection hold you back anymore. Reject rejection. It has no power unless you give it power.
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