What do you do when you’re not attracted to any of the single men at your church? I asked the same thing.
I was homeschooled and I didn’t go to a Christian college so I was probably meeting 1 to 2 new Christian men every couple of years.
This is a big reason why my first date wasn’t until I was 32. Something had to change. At that rate, I was likely to end up like those older single ladies at my church who never got married or had a family.
I made the best decision of my life and got a dating coach. With her help, I came up with lots of ways to meet new Christian men. I’m going to share a few with you here.
1️⃣ I kept a faith filled mindset.
I believed in God’s power. He said His church would stand and I trusted there were God followers for me to find.
2️⃣ I visited other churches in my hometown frequently
I served at my church, but I also visited others. I went to Christmas plays, concerts, Bible studies, singles events and I occasionally dropped in on a Sunday.
3️⃣ I included church when I traveled
Every time I traveled I’d visit churches. I even flew to my favorite radio show pastor’s church to visit several times. I’d get invited to after service lunches, parties, even dates all from connecting with a new church while I was traveling.
4️⃣ I got help from bigger churches
I called churches that I couldn’t visit but that had teaching that I trusted and I asked them to recommend churches closer to my home. I also found out through them conferences and retreats I could attend.
5️⃣ I opened my home
I hosted parties and get togethers in my home. It was nice to have something to invite people to and get to know them better. I even started a MeetUp group Bible study and met people in the community.
One of the things keeping Christian women single is that they only know men at one church.
But now you may be asking yourself, “What do I do when I visit these churches? I don’t know what to say to new guys.”
If you’ve been reading my posts, I know you’re tired of waiting. You’re ready to do something different. Working with me will save you years of worrying, praying, and crying over your love life.