I used to think I had to lose weight, do my hair perfectly and have the best career to attract a guy. I spent a lot of money on gyms and stylists. It was crazy. When I decided to love myself the way I was and stop trying to be perfect, I met and attracted … Continue reading You don’t have to be perfect to find love
Caleb and I met online. He was in Oregon and I was in Michigan – 3 time zones away. I’m so glad we found a way to make it work. And eventually I moved to Oregon and we got married. I want to share with you how to make your long distance relationship have a … Continue reading Read this before getting into a long distance relationship
Dating online can be a stressful time waster or a fun successful opportunity. Knowing which guys to give your time to is vital. Here’s the signs. 1️⃣ If he was too arrogant to put careful thought into his profile, he probably won’t put careful thought into his interactions with you. 2️⃣ If you and he … Continue reading How you know which guys online are worth your time
I was single with practically no dates till my early 30s. I had no clue how to change this. I had read “I kissed dating goodbye” and thought I should just wait, trust God, and be content. Everyone told me they were praying for me. But it really seemed like it was never going to … Continue reading Why I became a Christian dating coach
I’m so glad I didn’t let my having debt hold me back from pursuing a relationship. I didn’t think of myself as not worthy of marriage. So I hired a dating coach and figured out how I was blocking love. Finding the one for me was so worth it. If I had waited till I … Continue reading Why You Shouldn’t Wait to Get Out of Debt
Once I started creating my own happiness, I realized that wanting a relationship was different from needing a relationship. I began to live my life. I traveled. I went dancing. I dressed up. I went to restaurants. I bought my own flowers. In other words, I was responsible for my own feelings and I decided … Continue reading The Power of Not Needing a Relationship
Caleb and I have learned something’s about being an interracial couple. Most of the time, our different race status isn’t even an issue. But there are a few mind shifts we’ve had to make. 1️⃣ We had to expand the capacity of understanding. Especially as the non minority in the relationship, you’ll have to validate … Continue reading Mindsets Needed for Dating Interracially
For decades, I never flirted. In the back of my mind, I thought it wasn’t Christian or godly. And for decades, I stayed single. Thankfully, I began to see that flirting was simply inspiring attraction not soliciting lustful attention or sinful activities. I’d love to share how the fruits of the Spirit can help you … Continue reading How to flirt spiritually
I was pretty discouraged yesterday then I got some coaching and realized my self worth didn’t come from what I accomplished. If I can’t do something, figure something out, solve every problem, it doesn’t matter. I’m still ok. More than ok. If I fail, I got my back. #loveyourselftoday #loveyourselfmore #beyourbestyou #loveyourbod #lovingmyjourney #loveyourbodynow Continue reading Self worth regardless
OK. Time to be honest about what could have been my worst date ever. I met a guy on a dating site. Probably Christian Mingle. And he wanted to hang out with me it seemed. For some reason, it didn’t work out the first couple of times. I think he said he was snow mobiling … Continue reading My date left without saying goodbye